Simmering Saturdays: Your Journey Back to the Hot Mama Simmering Underneath the Nurturing Mother
There’s a fiery vixen simmering underneath every doting mom, but sometimes she gets smothered by the mother we’ve become. Join me, on a journey to reclaim our inner mamas, our fiery spirits, our sexy vibes, our swagga and everything else in between. To begin, all you have to do is Stop, Start, Continue. Here’s how
Looking for the vixen underneath the doting mother? Every mom needs to simply, Stop. Start. Continue. Here’s How:
By Wendy Petties, Certified Sex Educator
Make this your Year of Pleasure! How would that feel?
What would your year look like if there was more pleasure involved for you?
I am proposing that you put Woman first. Remember that bad, sexy chick that was flirty and fun, who loved to touch and be touched, always had a little heat simmering just beneath the surface? Yes, that was you!
Before babies, toddlers, adolescents, tweens and teens (even those a little older who are still not completely independent) YOU were one hot mama (pardon the pun), or at least you tried to be.
About Wendy Petties:
Wendy Petties earned an MBA in Organizational Behavior – Psychology and Human Resources, and used those skills to develop strategies to aid others, but found that much of the clinical and professional writing on the topic of sexuality was not targeting ‘average’ people, especially people of color. Women between the ages of 24-45, in particular, are often marginalized or degraded for exhibiting any sexual freedom or curiosity.
While attending a seminar with Jill Nelson and Dr. Hilda Hutcherson, Wendy was thrilled to see many people of color in attendance openly talking, sharing their thoughts and feelings on a myriad of sexual topics. She became convinced that there was a need for this work on behalf of people who are not considered by traditional offerings and coaches. At a panel discussion on intimacy, one of the panelists mentioned that they sold adult novelties at house parties. Wendy’s interest was piqued and she decided that she could use Pleasure Parties as a foundation for offering education and coaching in a relaxed setting. Simmer was born.
As a sex coach, Wendy is used as a vehicle for people to explore their sexuality and sensuality in a safe and secure environment. Through workshops and seminars, sensual education parties and private client meetings, people are empowered – particularly women of color – to research, examine and develop methods to achieve their desired level of sexual expression. Her goal is to train, inspire, encourage, coax and have individuals discover what is holding them back or making them unhappy. They are then able to work on creating whatever it takes to move to the next level in sexual self-discovery and life.
A sample of the some of the trainings offered are:
• Monogamy: How to have fun with a long term partner
• Relationship Viagra: How to rekindle the flames when you’re 40 and older
• Sensuality, Sex, and Safety
• Know Your Body Intimately
• Self Image and Identity
Wendy says, “I defy presumptions of who should – and can – do this work; I am an educator, a mentor, a guide for people who want to embrace this aspect of themselves but don’t know how to begin. Often, just speaking about their needs, reservations and hopes in a non-judgmental forum, helps people feel more comfortable in their sexuality.”