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		<title>Comment on Erykah Badu To Become Midwife! Why We Need More Black Midwives &amp; Doulas. by Mecia</title>
		<link>http://mochamanual.com/blog/2011/10/erykah-badu-to-become-midwife-why-we-need-more-black-midwives-doulas/comment-page-1/#comment-9020</link>
		<dc:creator>Mecia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Nov 2011 23:27:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I used a doula, a black doula (SHOUT OUT TO SHAYLA BOYD-GILL) for the birth of my second child.  I had my first child unmedicated and wished to do the same with my second child.  However, my doctor wanted me to have an epidural because my blood pressure went up during the my first birth.  I was concerned because I knew the risks of epidurals (thanks Bradley classes), DETEST needles, and it seemed to me (from all my research watching &quot;A Baby Story&quot;, &quot;Birth Day&quot;, and &quot;The Business of Birth&quot;) that epidurals slowed labor which led to complications and a c-section.  I feared c-sections more than anything.  My doula educated me and my husband and guided us through a short, but intense labor.  I was much more calm, in control, and my blood pressure remained normal.  I encourage all of my friends to use a doula whether you want medicated or not.  It&#039;s like having a birth advocate, a buffer between you and the medical mumbo jumbo, and the doctor pressure.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I used a doula, a black doula (SHOUT OUT TO SHAYLA BOYD-GILL) for the birth of my second child.  I had my first child unmedicated and wished to do the same with my second child.  However, my doctor wanted me to have an epidural because my blood pressure went up during the my first birth.  I was concerned because I knew the risks of epidurals (thanks Bradley classes), DETEST needles, and it seemed to me (from all my research watching &#8220;A Baby Story&#8221;, &#8220;Birth Day&#8221;, and &#8220;The Business of Birth&#8221;) that epidurals slowed labor which led to complications and a c-section.  I feared c-sections more than anything.  My doula educated me and my husband and guided us through a short, but intense labor.  I was much more calm, in control, and my blood pressure remained normal.  I encourage all of my friends to use a doula whether you want medicated or not.  It&#8217;s like having a birth advocate, a buffer between you and the medical mumbo jumbo, and the doctor pressure.</p>
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		<title>Comment on &#8220;I Declare I Am A Girl&#8221; Event Gives Me Goose Bumps; Check out Pics &amp; Videos by children</title>
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		<dc:creator>children</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Oct 2011 12:04:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on Friday Flashback: AVON Founder&#8217;s Day. 4 Amazing Moms. The Secret to a $14 Million Sales Unit. And A Lesson in Female Empowerment by Zellena Sherman</title>
		<link>http://mochamanual.com/blog/2011/10/friday-flashback-avon-founders-day-4-amazing-moms-the-secret-to-a-14-million-sales-unit-and-a-lesson-in-female-empowerment/comment-page-1/#comment-7228</link>
		<dc:creator>Zellena Sherman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Oct 2011 15:45:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love selling Avon! This article was wonderful and it inspired me to continue. Thanks

youravon.com/zsherman</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love selling Avon! This article was wonderful and it inspired me to continue. Thanks</p>
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		<title>Comment on Friday Flashback: AVON Founder&#8217;s Day. 4 Amazing Moms. The Secret to a $14 Million Sales Unit. And A Lesson in Female Empowerment by Zellena Sherman</title>
		<link>http://mochamanual.com/blog/2011/10/friday-flashback-avon-founders-day-4-amazing-moms-the-secret-to-a-14-million-sales-unit-and-a-lesson-in-female-empowerment/comment-page-1/#comment-7227</link>
		<dc:creator>Zellena Sherman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Oct 2011 15:31:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love! This article was wonderful to read. It inspired to sell more!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love! This article was wonderful to read. It inspired to sell more!</p>
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		<title>Comment on My Review: Jennifer Aniston, Demi Moore &amp; Alicia Keys Direct FIVE&#8211;5 amazing short films on women with breast cancer. And check out my NYC premiere pics by Alicia Keys, Jennifer Aniston &#38; Demi Moore Team Up to Fight Breast Cancer! &#8211; WWW.SHAYSTAR.COM</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alicia Keys, Jennifer Aniston &#38; Demi Moore Team Up to Fight Breast Cancer! &#8211; WWW.SHAYSTAR.COM</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Sep 2011 08:49:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on Breastfeeding Awareness Month: Are Mothers Viewed As Good Enough to &#8220;Incubate&#8221; A Baby But Not to &#8220;Nourish&#8221; It? by Asante George</title>
		<link>http://mochamanual.com/blog/2011/08/breastfeeding-awareness-month-are-mothers-viewed-as-good-enough-to-incubate-a-baby-but-not-to-nourish-it/comment-page-1/#comment-6835</link>
		<dc:creator>Asante George</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Sep 2011 14:50:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is such an important topic. I appreciate your point that the information is out there, but many women are lacking the support to commit to breastfeeding their babies. I breastfed my daughter, and I noticed she suffer from many of the common childhood maladies including ear infections, colic, allergies etc. Because of this observation, I chose to breastfeed her for an extended period of time. It seemed to be an issue for some in my life people, but I knew it was the best thing for my daughter and I, and I decided it wasn&#039;t up for debate. What a wonderful topic for us to explore so that more families can benefit from breastfeeding.
Wishing you all the best,
Asante George
htp://AsanteGeorge.com/blog</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is such an important topic. I appreciate your point that the information is out there, but many women are lacking the support to commit to breastfeeding their babies. I breastfed my daughter, and I noticed she suffer from many of the common childhood maladies including ear infections, colic, allergies etc. Because of this observation, I chose to breastfeed her for an extended period of time. It seemed to be an issue for some in my life people, but I knew it was the best thing for my daughter and I, and I decided it wasn&#8217;t up for debate. What a wonderful topic for us to explore so that more families can benefit from breastfeeding.<br />
Wishing you all the best,<br />
Asante George<br />
htp://AsanteGeorge.com/blog</p>
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		<title>Comment on Catch the 48 Hours Bullying Special on Sept 16. Plus, Kim&#8217;s Question to Mocha Manual Moms: Is Bullying Different for African Americans? by shelley</title>
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		<dc:creator>shelley</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Sep 2011 13:26:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have grandchildren now who are in middle school. My granddaughter was bullied once in school by a group of friends. She refused to do something that they felt she should do and the  bulling started. My grand-daughter did not say anything at frist but to see her feeling hurt and alone angered me to no ends. I took my grand-daughter to school spoke with the principle and explained that it was not going to happen. since I knew where the children lived I made it a point to speak with the parents and the children explained that it was going to stop. I did not make any threats but I felt the message was recieved. The problem is that we wait until it gets out of control then we try to do something. I have always believed that a bully should be confront on the spot. Standing up to a bully means showing them that you are not afraid and you will do what it takes to defend yourself. Get the parents, the school, the police and whom ever else it takes. Press charges on everyone involved and stay on it. Prepare your child for this from an early age. When I was younger and when the bully started I was able to stand my ground they knew it was on. I was raised by a strong grandmother and it was not happening period.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have grandchildren now who are in middle school. My granddaughter was bullied once in school by a group of friends. She refused to do something that they felt she should do and the  bulling started. My grand-daughter did not say anything at frist but to see her feeling hurt and alone angered me to no ends. I took my grand-daughter to school spoke with the principle and explained that it was not going to happen. since I knew where the children lived I made it a point to speak with the parents and the children explained that it was going to stop. I did not make any threats but I felt the message was recieved. The problem is that we wait until it gets out of control then we try to do something. I have always believed that a bully should be confront on the spot. Standing up to a bully means showing them that you are not afraid and you will do what it takes to defend yourself. Get the parents, the school, the police and whom ever else it takes. Press charges on everyone involved and stay on it. Prepare your child for this from an early age. When I was younger and when the bully started I was able to stand my ground they knew it was on. I was raised by a strong grandmother and it was not happening period.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Breastfeeding Awareness Month: Are Mothers Viewed As Good Enough to &#8220;Incubate&#8221; A Baby But Not to &#8220;Nourish&#8221; It? by Mecia</title>
		<link>http://mochamanual.com/blog/2011/08/breastfeeding-awareness-month-are-mothers-viewed-as-good-enough-to-incubate-a-baby-but-not-to-nourish-it/comment-page-1/#comment-6563</link>
		<dc:creator>Mecia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Sep 2011 22:15:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Preach!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Preach!</p>
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		<title>Comment on B-Ball Wives Cast at Essence Music Festival &#8220;Empowerment Experience.&#8221; Really Essence? by Hangingwithangie</title>
		<link>http://mochamanual.com/blog/2011/06/b-ball-wives-at-essence-music-festival-empowerment-experience-really-essence/comment-page-1/#comment-5637</link>
		<dc:creator>Hangingwithangie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jul 2011 17:15:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I couldn&#039;t have worded this better myself.</description>
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		<title>Comment on B-Ball Wives Cast at Essence Music Festival &#8220;Empowerment Experience.&#8221; Really Essence? by Ananda Leeke</title>
		<link>http://mochamanual.com/blog/2011/06/b-ball-wives-at-essence-music-festival-empowerment-experience-really-essence/comment-page-1/#comment-5631</link>
		<dc:creator>Ananda Leeke</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jul 2011 16:44:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for bringing this to my attention. I totally agree. By the way, my friend Tonya in ATL loved your Mocha Manual. I gave it to her for her first baby. She had a girl on May 1.  Your work is amazing. Keep inspiring.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for bringing this to my attention. I totally agree. By the way, my friend Tonya in ATL loved your Mocha Manual. I gave it to her for her first baby. She had a girl on May 1.  Your work is amazing. Keep inspiring.</p>
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